It’s almost 2019! Can you believe it? Happy New Year! Got a quick question… how was your sex life in 2018? Have some areas you want to improve? Missing that spark?  Let’s make 2019 the sexiest year of your life!

Let’s face it. Sex, like any other activity we do, can quickly get routine and boring. Below you will find my top 5 resolutions that I want you to try! If you are looking for more help or resolutions download The PDF Built For Your Sex Life: The Top 12 Tips for You This Year!

Plan A Weekend Away

Do whatever you can to plan at least one weekend away with your partner and leave behind all the stressors of everyday life (the kids, the dog, even your phone etc). Hotels are particularly good places to relax and enjoy sex with your partner.  Letting other people cook your meals, clean your room, and pamper you will help you relax and get you in the mood!

Try some tantric massage or breath exercises to help you guys connect. Variety is the spice of life.  Try the floor, the living room couch, the shower and/or the balcony.

Find Time Every Day To Connect With Your Partner
This may sound like a no-brainer, but it’s actually harder to do and requires an effort on both of your parts.

Setting aside time to spend with your partner intimately, with no other distractions, is so incredibly important for the health of your sex life. Some ways to do this might include: cuddling on the couch while watching a movie or your favorite TV show, going for a walk hand in hand around the neighborhood, and even a simple massage to get out the tension in the neck and shoulders right before bed.

Make Weekly Dates to Have Sex
After you have been with your partner for a while, sex rarely happens spontaneously. Our life gets busy (especially during the holidays) with the kids, our social lives, even social media! So the best way to ensure that you have sex on a regular basis is to put it in your calendar, just like every other important appointment in your life.

Get Creative and Try Something New
Same type of sex, same position, every time quickly gets boring. To keep your sex life interesting and alive, you need to constantly change things up. It is true that we are all creatures of habit, but that’s not positive when it comes to your sex life. Merely having sex in a different room or space can be exciting. Try the shower, living room, or the kitchen table. To spice it up even more, check out the toys and gifts that I recommended in my holiday gift guide.Why not also try some aphrodisiacs to create a sensual time with your partner.  Both are a great way to explore what you like!

Buy Something Sexy

Wearing sexy clothes, helps us find our sexy. You can even do this while cleaning the house or making dinner.  If there are the kids in the picture, put on some sexy underwear and a bra. You’ll be surprised how it lifts your mood. Take a girlfriend, or your partner with you, and head to the nearest lingerie shop, and buy something that makes you feel amazing!

 

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