The Power of Pleasure San Francisco Master Lover Workshop

3 Master Lover Skills to Transform your Sex Life

Monday Sept 11, 2017 @ Good Vibrations Polk Street

I know how confusing women can be.  One minute we want one thing and the next minute we want something else.  It’s enough to drive a man crazy especially when all he really wants to do is please her.

Men who have confidence in the bedroom don’t get rattled by women’s shifting boundaries.  They know exactly how to show up in the moment.  They create an environment that allows women to feel safe and surrender.  They understand how to help a woman find her “yes”, rather than her “no”.

In this workshop you will learn three powerful keys to becoming a Master Lover:

      • Own your sexual power
      • Understand the relationship between women’s desire and arousal
      • Create a Master Lover mindset

couples workshop

Passionate Intimacy: Couples Workshop

Saturday Sept 23 at Harmonia in Sausalito

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Do you long for the good old days when just a look from your partner could drive you wild with desire? Are you lacking the fire and passion in your relationship? Do you want to learn how to really connect with your partner at a more intimate level?
In this one day couples workshop we will help you reignite the flame with your partner and create a deeper level of intimacy and connection. Whether you’ve been together for 10 years or 10 weeks, you will leave this day with a renewed sense of intimacy and will understand how to create and maintain passion in your relationship.

  • Making time for intimacy, losing goal orientation, and creating a special place and time for sex.
  • Learn what it really means to connect with your partner’s sexual energy and intensify intimacy and pleasure.
  • How to touch your partner so that they are begging for more
  • Explore the interplay between desire and surrender in passionate touch

Xanet and Kai are masters of helping couples get to the root of intimacy.  They helped us build a more solid foundation. The workshop created the building blocks for our future.
Fontella, Hayward, CA


The workshop exceeded my expectations. As a therapist I tend to be critical of these types of events.  The workshop is experientially focused with teachings interspersed. You won’t get bored.  My fiancé and I have implemented the skills learned daily which has enhanced the intimacy of our relationship. It’s a great opportunity to lean into the proverbial edges with your partner and learn additional skills towards more positive outcomes. Bring your partner for a day of growth and play! You won’t be disappointed!!!!
Danielle L, Oakland, CA


Xanet and Kai have distilled a dozen techniques from cognitive psychology and Tantra into a useful set of practices that all couples can benefit from
Dr. George Baldwin, Professor of Psychology, CSU


It was powerful to have the time, space, and exercises to connect with my partner in new ways.  I learned tools to help us stay connected and tapped into blocks to my own passion and desire.
Amber, Santa Cruz

Xanet Pailet and Kai Wu

Xanet Pailet and Kai Wu are sex and intimacy coaches, certified sexological body workers and certified tantra educators who each work with women, men and couples to help empower them around their sexuality and create more love and intimacy. They created their signature “Master Lover Workshop for Men” which has been wildly successful and will be launched at Harbin Hot Springs in October of 2015. They are thrilled to bring this ground breaking intimacy workshop to couples.

Join the San Francisco Love & Intimacy Network Meet Up Group

Looking to add some juice to your week?  Interested in meeting other sex positive men and women? Want to explore some of your edges?  Open to learning new things about sex and intimacy?

Join the San Francisco Love & Intimacy Network Meet Up Group. We meet monthly in San Francisco on Wednesday evenings. Some of the topics we have explored include:

      • Relationship Magic:  Manifesting the Relationship of Your Dreams
      • Learn About the Five Myths of Orgasm
      • Exploring Sensual Touch
      • How to Date Conscious Women
      • The Art of Intimacy
      • Awakening the Senses

Join Here

Men's Lover Weekend

The Lover:  A Weekend for Men About Women

October 20-22 at Earthrise Retreat Center, Petaluma,CA



Looking for more confidence with women? Interested in gaining new skills in and out of the bedroom? Wonder what it would feel like to be in the flow and better connected with your partner? Let us help you create the intimate relationships and sex life that you really want and become a Master Lover.

We will help you crack the code of what women want in a man and what makes a man a great lover. Learn how to embrace her changing ways and meet her where she is, rather than where you think you should be. Learn how to touch her in ways that will drive her wild.

Come join us in a safe, loving and supportive space where you will have the freedom to bring all of who you are as a man and connect to your sexual energy and desire. Experiential learning is the most effective way to actually affect change in areas such as sexuality and intimacy. This powerful and unique workshop is both experiential and interactive. You will:

  • Learn how to become a more passionate, confident and skilled lover.
  • Discover the secrets to how women like to be loved (whether you’ve known her for a long time or you have just met).
  • Learn the different ways you can drive a woman crazy with touch.
  • Find and unleash your “bad boy” energy.
  • Discover how to connect to your own pleasure so you can help a woman connect to hers.
  • Learn about the physiology of female sexual arousal including women’s erectile network system.
  • Identify some of the patterns that may be holding you back so you can better connect to your sexual energy and passion.
  • Gain new skills and have the opportunity for hands-on practice with loving, honest and supportive female sex and intimacy teachers.
  • Receive individual one-on-one coaching and get real-time feedback as you learn and practice.
  • Watch a live demo of erotic sensual massage.

You will leave this weekend a much more confident, skilled, authentic, and passionate lover.

Taught by certified sex and intimacy coaches and Tantra educators Kai Wu & Xanet Pailet, “Master Lover Men’s Weekend” offers men a unique opportunity to experience, learn and explore. Through the perspective of Kai & Xanet, gain insight into the inner desires of women in the areas of love, sex and partnershi

Meet Your Master Lover Instructors and Coaches:

Sex and Intimacy Coaching   Xanet Pailet Kai.headshot.Kai Wu

Listen to a Podcast from one of our Participants who LOVED this Workshop..

Read the Rave Reviews from this Workshop!

Every man in a restless, stale, disconnected relationship should take this class”
–John, SF.
This is the sexual education every man needs, old or young. This is one of the key components to cultivate the divine masculinity that this country desperately needs”
–Brandon Chien, San Mateo, CA
The magical space held by Xanet created a transformational experience fueled by the most basic of human existence— desire.
—Clark, SF
Xanet is able to put together a team of sex and intimacy experts who can explcitly show men how to open up their own inate knowledge of powerful, thrilling connections.
–Rob Heart, Oakland

My Awake Body

Awaken your body and TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE!

Sign up today for Xanet’s 14-day adventure, My Awake Body, during which you will learn to:

  • Experience more sensation and aliveness
  • Improve your emotional health
  • Reduce stress and anxiety
  • Discover your trust and intuition
  • Live a more vibrant life

Best of all, it’s FREE! Be sure to take advantage of this offer while it lasts.

I’m not the type to take on challenges, but Xanet’s Awaken Your Body Adventure seemed doable to me and so I took the plunge. I hadn’t been in touch with my body for years since having my second child. With Xanet’s program, I found out that I had never really been truly in touch with my body. Today, I enjoy myself and all that my body has to offer me. I am a free soul and take in all of the pleasures life has to offer. I can’t wait to continue the journey and look forward to continued work with Xanet when she is available. Thank you with all my heart. You have truly changed my life.

– S. Jenkins


The Empowered Woman’s Guide to Orgasmic Bliss


Join the waitlist for Xanet’s 10 week program, The Empowered Woman’s Guide to Orgasmic Bliss, during which you will learn to:

  • Embrace all of you and learn how to truly love yourself
  • Rid yourself of limiting beliefs and shame around your sexuality
  • Deeply connect with and listen to your body
  • Learn new tools and skills to ignite your love life

Using Four Core Principles, this program will help you break through blocks that are holding you back from the intimacy, connection and passion that you want.

  • Presence in mind and body
  • Power to address issues around sex and intimacy
  • Permission to be messy, take risks and still love yourself
  • Pleasure in your body and in your life

Learn more and join the waitlist here!

Be sure to sign up for one of our available workshops, or schedule a private session with Xanet right now!

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