Coaching  |  Tantra  |  Intensives

Sex Coaching for Couples

  • Communicate your needs and desires so you get what you want
  • Explore how conscious touch can take your partner to new heights
  • Experience a more fun and playful sexual experience
  • Deepen your intimacy and passion through breath and energetic connections
Sex can easily become boring. Family and personal obligations, careers, and the busy lives we all lead conspire against us to keep sex on the back burner. Sexual relationships need to be continuously nurtured and the fire needs to be fanned in order to keep the flames burning brightly. Helping couples learn to communicate openly with each other during sex is a central component of the sex coaching for couples program. Communicating our desires and needs to our partner can often be challenging, particularly if we are used to relating to each other in a certain way. There is sometimes also the fear of being judged for wanting to explore different types of sexual experiences such as anal play or BDSM.

In Their Own Words

“My husband and I took Xanet’s Passionate Intimacy Workshop last December and we were both very invigorated by it. We signed up for sex coaching sessions and we really enjoyed our experience. Xanet is a very present and engaging coach. As a couples MFT therapist myself, I know the importance of not favoring sides and Xanet did this so well. Her intuition and experience really helped us to unpack and experiment in a creative yet safe way.” – C.O.  Berkeley
Xanet is a great resource for couples who want to improve their sex life. I invited her to give a talk on sexuality to marriage counselors at The Couples Center. Xanet did an excellent job – she was engaging, knowledgeable and warm. She gave us practical information and also led some experiential exercises (clothes on…). She is genuine, trustworthy, easy to connect to and passionate about her work. – Gal Sazelsky, Couples Center
My fiance’ and I sought out Xanet’s services to give us new tools to enhance our level of connection. During our first session, we learned a process to support our ability to let go of the busyness in our minds from our very full lives and reconnect to our love for each other in a very special way. – S.L., East Bay

Explore Tantra

Tantra is a spiritual practice that honors the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine in everyone. Weaving together our physical, spiritual, and sexual energy through Tantric practices allows us to experience sex at a completely different level. Tantric sex is a full body and full spirit experience that allows us to access different levels of sexual energy and consciousness. Topics that we address in our Private Tantra Instruction for Couples:
  • Honoring the Divine Masculine and Feminine
  • Creating Sacred Space for Love Making
  • The Art of Conscious Touch
  • Awakening the Chakras
  • Sacred Spot Massage for Women and Men
  • Breath and Orgasm Tantric Practices
  • Tantric Massage


Connection and presence as a foundation for intimacy “Xanet has helped my husband and I tremendously to slow things down and build a strong foundation of connection and presence with each other. She’s helping us take responsibility for our own emotions, learn how to communicate our needs and wants with each other, and hold space for each other’s emotions without having to fix them. I am so grateful for Xanet’s coaching and support that’s helped us see what is possible for our connection and intimacy.”

Intensives For Couples

There is no better way to recharge your relationship and sex life than spending a weekend in a coaching intensive. Over the course of the intensive we will work on:
  • Strengthening intimacy and connection
  • Learn how to meet and satisfy each others needs and desires
In a safe and supportive setting, you can explore and be coached on couples play including:
  • Sensual massage
  • Fantasy play
  • Light kink


An amazing and powerful journey of self-discovery and healing! “Xanet has been an incredible discovery for me and my husband and truly helped us to heal our intimacy and sex life. Highlights of her approach: -she is extremely knowledgeable -she has a very experiential, body centered approach and is very resourceful -she is able to pinpoint the issue and dive into it fearlessly, and thoughtfully at a very deep level -she was very committed to us both as individuals and couple: a true and trustworthy coach A game changer for intimacy and personal growth!” ~ MB
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