First Date: How to move from Fizzle to Fireworks

First Date: How to move from Fizzle to Fireworks

Have you ever been on a first date where you are physically attracted to each other but nothing seems to be happening?  Have you felt the energy shift from a possible romantic connection to the friend zone? Maybe it left you scratching your head wondering “what...
How to transition from lover to friend

How to transition from lover to friend

We’ve all been in that situation where a love relationship is ending and while we want to remain friends, we’re not really sure whether it’s possible and how to make it happen.  Transitioning from lover to friend can be very tricky especially if the...
Becoming an Intimacy Scientist

Becoming an Intimacy Scientist

As a sex and intimacy coach, one would think that I know everything about what it’s like to experience intimacy.  But intimacy, unlike golf or tennis, has no clear rules. While there are skills that we can learn along the way (presence, communication, knowing your...

How to Find a Good Man

The number one question I hear over and over from my single friends and female clients is “Where do I find a good man?”.  The conversation usually devolves quickly into the universally known fact by all single women that there are simply no available good...

Why Women Love Bad Boys…

At my recent Master Lover Workshop the number one question that the men wanted to know is “why do women like bad boys”?  When I asked the participants how they would describe a bad boy, they said it was someone who didn’t treat women well, was...