Join the No Sex until 2021 Challenge
This morning I issued a challenge to my partner, "No Sex until Jan 1 at midnight". He looked at me...
Sleep vs Intimacy: What if they can’t co-exist?
I was recently challenged about the categorical statement that I made in an interview that king size beds ruin marriages....
How To Avoid Painful Sex
How To Avoid Painful Sex Every sexual experience you have is meant to be great, it has to be something that both parties enjoy and if something is not feeling good or it’s painful you need to stop and do something else. So if sex, especially penetration, is uncomfortable or painful for you, you must stop immediately and try other things. I can’t emphasize this point enough. Women have been conditioned to accept all sorts of discomforts (including menstrual cramps) as part of our role in life. Which is definitely NOT good and you need to communicate every discomfort with your partner. Why do you experience painful sex? Uncomfortable or painful intercourse will begin to send a signal to your vaginal muscles, to further contract, in order to protect you from more pain and discomfort. Eventually, your body will take this protective pattern on, making it impossible for you to relax and become aroused, and making sex even more painful. It becomes an obligation or service sex just to please your partner. Again, many married women...
A Key Ingredient For Creating Dynamic Sexual Relationships: Tantalizing Teasing Touch
Feeling sexual desire for your partner and making this person desire you is something that gets difficult over time. Why...
The 411 On Being Your Own Lover
In the spirit of a brand new look, feel and direction of The Power of Pleasure website, I thought it...
Are You Living an Orgasmic Life?
, like my free Consider this question - What does it mean to live an orgasmic life? I contemplate and...
Does Your Sexual Blueprint Govern your Relationship with Sex as an Adult?
Today we dive into your sexual blueprint. What is it? How can you identify your sexual blueprint? Sexual blueprints have...
Kissing 101: Perfecting The High School Make-Out
Here’s the deal, kissing is really important to so many people, myself included. It can be more intimate than having...
The Ins and Outs of Attraction
Understanding attraction is complex and multi-faceted. It’s something that many people struggle with, both in and outside of relationships. It...
Energetic Violations in Non-Intimate Settings
Recently someone tagged me in an article and wanted to know my thoughts on it. The article was about energetically...