I’m coming out as a sex worker
[caption id="attachment_8514" align="aligncenter" width="300"] My sex worker days[/caption] Having just watched Good Luck to You Leo Grande, an excellent film with Emma...
Should I Give Bi a Try?
Dear Xanet, I'm going through a bit of a sex-life slump. Lately I seem to be attracting only very avoidant...
How to Celebrate Pride Month? Heal Shame and Feel Proud
June is national Pride Month, a time when we celebrate Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer folks. Why June?...
Come With Me and Escape Into Love
If you're like me, the last few weeks have left you feeling drained and wanting to put your phone in...
Swinging (in the Trees!)
When is the last time you took your erotic adventures out-of-doors? For many of us, it has been far...
Does “You Do You” Really Work In Relationship?
Recently a friend went out with a man, and on their date, my friend expressed some past experience with someone...
April 14: Double Sweetness on Cake & Cunnilingus Day!
Since we celebrated Valentines Day on February 14 and Steak & a BJ Day on March 14, today we get...
Couples That Play Together Stay Together
Research has shown that feelings of physical arousal - excitement - cause us to feel greater levels of sexual attraction....
Breakup Recovery: A Prescription for Health and Wholeness
Recently a friend posed a question on social media: "Following a breakup, what are the self-care rituals and other actions...
Spring has Sprung! Out with the Old, In with the New
I don’t know about where you live, but here in Asheville, spring is in the air! The sun is shining,...