How to Design Your Orgasmic Life: A Blog Series
Want to Design a More Orgasmic Life? Start by Discovering Your Sexual Blueprint, Part One Our sexual identity is...
Do Men also Need Emotional Connection with a Partner to Want Sex?
I have a confession to make. For over a decade, I have had a blind spot about men's sexual desire. ...
3 Reasons Why Solo Sex Creates Health and Vitality
If you are like millions of people stuck at home during the Pandemic without a partner, it is likely that...
How to Use Sex Magick to Manifest Your Desires in 2021
Congratulations! You made it to 2021! This past year has tested all of us in ways we never imagined...
Join the No Sex until 2021 Challenge
This morning I issued a challenge to my partner, "No Sex until Jan 1 at midnight". He looked at me...
Just Do It!
Lack of desire is one of the most common complaints I hear from women. While menopausal women tend to be...
Sleep vs Intimacy: What if they can’t co-exist?
I was recently challenged about the categorical statement that I made in an interview that king size beds ruin marriages....
I owe You an Apology
Dear Readers: I owe you an apology. I'm sorry that it's been almost two months since I've written a blog post,...
How To Avoid Painful Sex
How To Avoid Painful Sex Every sexual experience you have is meant to be great, it has to be something that both parties enjoy and if something is not feeling good or it’s painful you need to stop and do something else. So if sex, especially penetration, is uncomfortable or painful for you, you must stop immediately and try other things. I can’t emphasize this point enough. Women have been conditioned to accept all sorts of discomforts (including menstrual cramps) as part of our role in life. Which is definitely NOT good and you need to communicate every discomfort with your partner. Why do you experience painful sex? Uncomfortable or painful intercourse will begin to send a signal to your vaginal muscles, to further contract, in order to protect you from more pain and discomfort. Eventually, your body will take this protective pattern on, making it impossible for you to relax and become aroused, and making sex even more painful. It becomes an obligation or service sex just to please your partner. Again, many married women...
6 Astonishing Ways CBD Can Help You Boost Your Sex Life
Do you feel like your sex life has taken a hit? If so, how can you revive it? You know...