Breathe In… Breathe Out… Take a Pause
Recently my partner and I had a fight, of sorts, and I ended up feeling incredibly triggered by what went...
Not Down to F*ck, but Down to F*ck Around
This month, I'm in Florida, soaking up the warmer weather, away from my partner, and I find that I just...
Sexual Vision for the New Year
Last February, right around Valentine's Day, I created my vision board. So now, almost a year later, I have to report...
Rockin’ Around the S3Xmas Tree
As I sit here sipping tea and admiring all the sexiness on my tree, I wanted to share something I've...
Have Yourself A Very Sexy XXXmas!
Let's face it: The holidays can be stressful AF. Gifts to buy, endless social obligations, crazy uncles at holiday dinners......
Sex is Political: Grab ‘Em By the Ballot
CW: sexual assault, rape In the aftermath of the midterm election, I'm relieved that it didn't go as badly as...
Gratitude as Part of a Healing Journey
Thanksgiving may have passed, but that doesn't mean it's too late to talk about gratitude. Why? Because gratitude is key...
Ruff, Ruff: The Lowdown On Fido In Bed
Can you guess what one of the most common hindrance my clients mention with regard to sex? Not enough time,...
Get Your Boo On! Why Sexy Dress-Up is a Must This Weekend
It's Halloween! And while I'm not pagan, I can't help but love celebrating Halloween, complete with costumes and parties and...
OUCH! What To Do When Sex is Painful
In this series on menopausal sex, I've busted a few myths about loss of desire (here, here, and here), and...