What Women tell their Sex Coach

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What Women tell their Sex Coach I’ve been doing a series for my female readers  on what women tell their sex coach inspired by an article I read in Elephant Journal.  The information is so important that I want to share it with everyone. I Can’t Have an Orgasm By far, this is the most […]

New report on average penis size

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Guess what … we finally have some real scientific data on average penis size.  Yesterday the British Journal of Urology published a study in which they aggregated data from 17 previously published academic papers that included measurements (as opposed to self reporting) from more than 15,000 men.  Drum roll please… Penis Size Stats: The average […]

50 Shades of Grey: What I learned from the Movie

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I was one of the millions of people who saw 50 Shades of Grey this Valentine’s Day Weekend.  Just like the book, it broke all box office records and grossed $247 Million in world wide ticket sales.  I’ve also been following the interest its generated by reviewers, bloggers, sex experts and the public on Facebook. […]

What Women Want: Understanding Female Sexual Desire

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I’ve been thinking about writing this blog post since I read Daniel Bergner’s book, “What Women Want“ several months ago.  But I’ve had a hard time wrapping my head around how to portray the information in a way that is helpful to both men and women.  Apparently female sexual arousal and desire is multi-faceted and […]

How to transition from lover to friend

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We’ve all been in that situation where a love relationship is ending and while we want to remain friends, we’re not really sure whether it’s possible and how to make it happen.  Transitioning from lover to friend can be very tricky especially if the break up was more one sided.  In the last five years, […]

5 New Year’s Resolutions for a Better Sex Life

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Here are my top five New Year’s resolutions for 2015.  What are yours? I will spend more time in my body. As a society we are so terribly disassociated from our bodies that most people don’t even understand what this new year’s resolution means.  It is easy to spend time in our head or on […]

Fight the Rainy Day Blues with Sex

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I don’t know about you but the shorter days, incessant rain in Northern California, and lack of sun is giving me a bad case of the rainy day blues.  I’m cranky, tired, and feeling really depleted.  Many of us, myself included, suffer from mild to severe Seasonal Affective Disorder.  For some, it’s impossible to get […]

How to Feel Sexy

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I spend a lot of time helping women learn how to feel sexy.  Many women have never felt sexy in their entire life.  I know…I was one of the them.  And even for those women who know what sexy feels like, changes in our life makes us lose that sexy feeling. This become really apparent […]

Couples Intimacy: Keeping the Flame Alive

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Couples Intimacy is a topic that comes up in my work and my life all the time.  The most common complaint I hear from couples is that the passion has died and that sex has become boring and routine.  Often this leads to having sex less frequently, which then starts a downward spiral of less […]

How Sex can Improve Your Business and Career

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I recently gave a talk to a group of women about the secret ingredient to help improve their business and career!  Here’s the best news…It won’t cost  a dime, it will fill you and fulfill you, bring lots of pleasure, and has an unlimited supply.   Yes it’s true!  Sex is the secret ingredient to […]