Making Sense of Orlando

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I had just returned home from the Ecstatic Festival.  Four days of love, connection, intimacy, and no internet connection, when I learned about the tragedy in Orlando.  I had a hard time wrapping my head around it, just like I”m having a hard time wrapping my head around the vitriol spewing from the mouth of […]

Why Women Fake Orgasms…and Ways to Stop It!

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Ladies, if you are faking orgasms, please rest assured that you are definitely not alone!  Some studies have said that over 80% of women fake orgasms on a regular basis, often during intercourse.  Even yours truly has faked them occasionally. Rather than shaming ourselves, let’s look at the reasons why women fake orgasms. We want […]

The Power of Surrender

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For the past year, I’ve been saying that my next level of work is experiencing the power of surrender, but I had no idea how that was actually going to happen.  Here’s the lesson my friends…be careful what you ask for. Trusting in the Power of Surrender I know the power of surrender in a sexual […]

Knowing Your Sexual Style will Improve your Sex Life

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One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style.  Sexual styles were first discovered by the psychologist Donald Mosher and popularized by David Schnarch in his best selling book “Passionate Marriage”. There are three types of sexual styles and while many of us can […]

Breaking Up is Hard to Do…But It Can be Done Well

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Breaking Up is Hard to Do But it Can be Done Well A smart man once told me…if you see a woman with tears streaming down her face sobbing inconsolably, you can pretty much assume that she’s breaking up with her boyfriend.   As we all know, the ending of a relationship with all of […]

How to make every day Valentine’s Day!

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Why can’t everyday be Valentines’ Day? February is the month for love and romance and the Hallmark appointed Valentine’s Day celebration which grosses close to $20 Billion.  But Valentine’s Day for both singles and couples can be rife with frustration, regrets, and challenges. Valentines Day makes many singles even more aware of their single status […]

My Personal and Community Wishes for 2016

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Let’s face it:  2015 has been a very challenging year with the loss of our beloved Steve Carter and Harbin.  I am still trying to deal with these major blows which shifted the ground underneath my feet. And I know that I am not alone. Rather than doing my usual New Year’s Resolutions,  this year I […]

Give the gift of pleasure: A Womanizer

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The Womanizer is a wonderful gift to give to yourself or to your partner! As many of you know, I am not the biggest fan of vibrators.  I don’t hate them, but I do see how over use of them can really have an impact on a woman’s ability to have a clitoral orgasm on […]

Sex in Old Age

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How do these paintings of older people having sex make you feel? Be honest with yourself.  Intriguing or revolting? Does it make you look forward to aging or does it scare the living daylights out of you? I had the good fortune the other day to observe the reactions of a diverse group of individuals […]

The Power of Mind Body Medicine

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Sometimes clients show up at my door in pain.  Not just emotional pain, but intense physical pain. Often our sessions are able to heal that pain by just allowing the body to express deeply buried emotions.  When that’s not successful, I call upon an expert in Mind Body Medicine, who I happened to have been […]

 
 
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