How to transition from lover to friend

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We’ve all been in that situation where a love relationship is ending and while we want to remain friends, we’re not really sure whether it’s possible and how to make it happen.  Transitioning from lover to friend can be very tricky especially if the break up was more one sided.  In the last five years, […]

Becoming an Intimacy Scientist

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As a sex and intimacy coach, one would think that I know everything about what it’s like to experience intimacy.  But intimacy, unlike golf or tennis, has no clear rules. While there are skills that we can learn along the way (presence, communication, knowing your needs and desires), each intimate relationship has its own unique […]

How to Find a Good Man

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The number one question I hear over and over from my single friends and female clients is “Where do I find a good man?”.  The conversation usually devolves quickly into the universally known fact by all single women that there are simply no available good men left on this planet.  OK maybe there are some […]

Why Women Love Bad Boys…

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At my recent Master Lover Workshop the number one question that the men wanted to know is “why do women like bad boys”?  When I asked the participants how they would describe a bad boy, they said it was someone who didn’t treat women well, was disrespectful, sexually aggressive, violated boundaries and had negative masculine […]

Play Parties & Sexual Fantasy: Keeping Emotionally Safe

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Play parties and sexual fantasy can be a fun and exciting way to explore your sexuality, acting out on fantasies, meeting new people and enjoying the sexual energy of others.  Good play party facilitators create a safe container for the participants by warm up games to get to know each other, practice discussing boundaries and […]

Turning a Good Date into a Great Date

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Turning a Good Date into a Great Date Whether you are single or in a relationship, setting aside time for a date is the way to connect or re-connect with your partner.  It tells the other person that they are special and are worth giving up some of your precious time for each other.  Here […]

 
 
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