5 Ways to Take the Boredom out of Your Sex Life

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Happy New Year!  We’ve made it to 2017, a year that will no doubt go down in history.  Let’s also make history with your sex life and resolve that in 2017 you will banish boredom from your sex life and have one of the sexiest years of your life! Let’s face it.  Sex, like any […]

How I Spent My Summer Vacation: Embracing Celibacy

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The history books may remember the Summer of 2016 as a fight for our Democratic values as we faced, an unprecedented possibility, that a tyrannical demagogue could inhabit the most powerful position in the country, placing the entire world at risk. My own personal history book will record the Summer of 2016 as a time […]

Knowing Your Sexual Style will Improve your Sex Life

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One of the many reasons that couples struggle in the bedroom is because they may have a different sexual style.  Sexual styles were first discovered by the psychologist Donald Mosher and popularized by David Schnarch in his best selling book “Passionate Marriage”. There are three types of sexual styles and while many of us can […]

Sex in Old Age

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How do these paintings of older people having sex make you feel? Be honest with yourself.  Intriguing or revolting? Does it make you look forward to aging or does it scare the living daylights out of you? I had the good fortune the other day to observe the reactions of a diverse group of individuals […]

Passion and Intimacy: Keep the flame burning

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Passion and Intimacy: Keep the Flame Burning Is there anyone reading this post who doesn’t feel the connection and passion between this couple? I felt it deep in my body when the picture was accompanied by a text that said “Hey Mom…We’re engaged!”  And on the Amalfi Coast at sunset no less… Can you begin […]

Pussy Talk and Cock Talk: It’s not what you think…

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Pussy Talk and Cock Talk Here’s a question for you…When is the last time that you had a conversation with your genitals?  I mean, a really heart to heart conversation where you could listen to what your vagina or penis has to say? If you’re like most people, the answer is “never”.  We don’t think […]

Madonna Whore Complex: Bad for Men and Women

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Unravelling the Madonna Whore Complex The Madonna Whore complex shows up so frequently in my sex coaching practice that I thought a blog addressing it would be in order. What is a Madonna Whore complex? Coined by no other than Sigmund Freud, the Madonna Whore complex is the belief,  that women are categorized by men […]

Shanghai & Sex: Balancing the Old with the New

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Shanghai & Sex: Balancing the Old with the New Have you missed me?  I have spent the last two weeks in China visiting the incredible city of Shanghai. Internet access was extremely limited…no Google, no Facebook, unless you have a government monitored internet cable.  I did not teach a workshop. I did however host a […]

50 Shades of Grey: What I learned from the Movie

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I was one of the millions of people who saw 50 Shades of Grey this Valentine’s Day Weekend.  Just like the book, it broke all box office records and grossed $247 Million in world wide ticket sales.  I’ve also been following the interest its generated by reviewers, bloggers, sex experts and the public on Facebook. […]

5 New Year’s Resolutions for a Better Sex Life

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Here are my top five New Year’s resolutions for 2015.  What are yours? I will spend more time in my body. As a society we are so terribly disassociated from our bodies that most people don’t even understand what this new year’s resolution means.  It is easy to spend time in our head or on […]